Cultural Traditions
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Eastern Orthodox Church
The rings are blessed by the Priest, who takes them in hand, and makes the sign of the cross over the Bride and Groom's head. The "Koumbaros" (Best Man) then exchanges the rings three times, taking the Bride's ring and placing it on the Groom's finger, and vice-versa. This exchange signifies that in married life, the weaknesses of the one partner will be compensated for by the strength of the other, and the imperfections of one by the perfection's of the other. Candles are held throughout the Wedding Service, which begins immediately after the Betrothal Service. The candles are like the lamps of the five wise maidens of the Bible who, because they had enough oil in them, were able to receive Christ when He came in the darkness of the night. The candles symbolize the spiritual willingness of the couple to receive Christ, Who will bless them through this sacrament. The Office of the Crowning which follows is the climax of the Wedding Service. The crowns are signs of the glory and honor that God crowns them during the sacrament. The Bride and Groom are crowned as the King and Queen of their own little "kingdom", their home, which they will (hopefully) rule with wisdom, justice, and integrity.
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African American
At some African-American wedding ceremonies, newlyweds "jump over a broom" to symbolize the beginning of a new life. The ritual was created during slavery when African-Americans could not legally marry. Some people trace this wedding tradition to an African tribal marriage ritual of placing sticks on the ground representing the couple's new home. Today, the jumping of the broom is a symbol of sweeping away the old and welcoming the new. Broom Jumping can be performed either at the wedding ceremony after the minister pronounces the newlyweds' husband and wife, or at the wedding reception just after the Bridal Party enters the reception area. A fully decorated broom can be purchased at ethnic stores. Other couples may prefer to use a regular household broom decorated with bows, flowers, and/or other trinkets in the wedding colors. At some receptions, guests may participate in the ceremony by tying ribbons around the broom before the Broom Jumping begins.
In some African cultures, a “bride price” or “lobola” tradition exists, where gifts, cattle, or money are presented by the groom’s family to the bride’s family. This differs culturally and symbolically from dowry systems.
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Jewish
Many Jewish couples incorporate meaningful traditions into their wedding ceremony, such as marrying beneath a chuppah, which symbolizes the home they will build together, exchanging blessings over wine, and signing the ketubah, a symbolic marriage contract. Other traditions may include the bedeken veil ceremony, circling rituals representing unity and completion, and the breaking of the glass at the end of the ceremony to honor both joy and the fragility of life and love.
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indian
Many Indian couples incorporate rich cultural traditions into their wedding celebrations, often blending vibrant rituals with modern American ceremonies. Popular traditions include the baraat, where the groom makes a celebratory entrance with music and dancing, the exchange of floral garlands symbolizing acceptance and unity, and the sacred fire ceremony representing purity and commitment. Couples may also include the seven steps, or saptapadi, where they take vows together for a strong and lasting marriage, as well as colorful attire, henna ceremonies, and blessings from family members to honor heritage, love, and the joining of two families.
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Irish
In the early 1900's, an Irish couple would walk to church together on their Wedding Day. If the people of their parish approved their union they would throw rice, pots, pans, brushes and other household items at the couple as they approached their church. Today, "hen parties" (Bridal Showers) have replaced this practice. Some Irish people wear a "claddagh" ring for a wedding ring. This ring was created by a master goldsmith, Richard Joyce, 400 years ago in a fishing village called Claddagh, which overlooks Galway Bay. The claddagh symbolizes love, loyalty, and friendship. On the right hand, with the heart facing inward, it means the wearer's heart is unoccupied. Facing outwards reveals love is being considered. When worn on the left hand facing outward, it signifies that the wearer is seriously committed or married. At some Irish wedding receptions, the Groom is lifted in a chair ("jaunting car") to celebrate that he is a married man. For good luck, the newlyweds are given a horseshoe to display in their home in the upward position. A traditional Irish wedding cake is a fruitcake. Traditional Irish toasts, in addition to remarks from the Best Man, are very popular.
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Scottish
The Groom and his Groomsmen often wear Scottish kilts (and traditionally no undergarments!). The Groom may present the Bride with an engraved silver teaspoon on their wedding day to symbolize that they will never go hungry. A traditional sword dance is sometimes performed at their wedding reception.
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Belgian
As the Bride walks up the aisle at her Wedding Ceremony, the Bride stops and hands her mother a flower from her bouquet and they embrace. After the Wedding Ceremony is finished, the new couple walks to the Groom's side of the church and the Bride gives her mother-in-law a second flower from her bouquet and they also embrace.
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Italian
Some Brides may choose to carry a white silk or satin purse ("busta") to store gifts of money that are welcomed. "Tarantella" folk dances are popular at the wedding reception. Another Italian custom is to present five sugar-coated almonds to the guests which represent health, wealth, long life, fertility, and happiness.
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Polish
The Mother of the Bride may choose to place the veil on the Bride before the wedding ceremony to symbolize her last task that a Mother does on behalf of her girl before she becomes a married woman. A traditional folk song ("Twelve Angels") is sometimes played at the reception, allowing the Bride to transfer her veil, and good luck to be married, to her Maid of Honor, Bridesmaids, and Flower Girl. A morning wedding ceremony is sometimes followed with a brief afternoon luncheon, several hours of downtime when guests return home, and then a long evening wedding reception. Polka dances and other audience participation events are very popular.
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Chinese
The Bride may wear a red wedding dress, symbolizing love and joy. At the wedding reception, a nine-course meal (lasting up to three hours) is very popular. A family member may act as the official "Master of Ceremonies" orchestrating family introductions, toasts, comedy sketches, and a reenactment of the newlywed's courtship. Many couples choose to incorporate meaningful Chinese wedding traditions into their American wedding ceremony in ways that feel elegant, personal, and authentic to their relationship. One of the most popular traditions is the tea ceremony, where the couple serves tea to parents and elders as a symbol of respect, gratitude, and the joining of families. Couples may also incorporate symbolic red and gold details representing prosperity and happiness, wear traditional attire such as a qipao during part of the celebration, or include family blessings and cultural readings within the ceremony itself. Some choose meaningful dates considered lucky in Chinese culture, while others incorporate subtle traditions like the Double Happiness symbol, special foods symbolizing sweetness and longevity, or unity rituals that honor both Eastern and Western traditions.
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French
One early French wedding custom signifies the new alliance created by uniting two families through marriage. During the Wedding Reception, the new couple raises a glass of wine from two different vineyards. They then pour their wine into a third glass and each drink from it.
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German
During the wedding ceremony, the Groom may kneel on the hem of the Bride's dress to symbolize his control over her. Not to be outdone, the Bride may step on the Groom's foot when she rises to symbolize her power over him
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Hispanic
During the wedding ceremony, thirteen gold coins (representing the Groom's dowry to his Bride) are often blessed by the priest, and passed between the hands of the newlyweds several times before ending with the Bride. A large rosary or white rope ("lasso") is sometimes wound around the couple's shoulders in a figure-8 symbol of "infinity" during the wedding ceremony to symbolize their union as one.